“Prudence is rational concern without worry.”
-Bill W. (As Bill Sees It p. 91)
Prudence is one of those old-fashioned words in AA literature. Even though this one is easy to pronounce, unlike “anonymity,” many people have no idea what prudence really is.
When I am teaching new vocabulary words in class, I often have students learn a word’s synonyms, particularly a synonym of which they already know the meaning. This is the best way to learn a new word. Two synonyms for prudence are foresight and forethought. However, with this particular word, learning the antonym is what really helps me understand just what prudence means. The antonym for prudence is rashness.
How often in my self-will have I rashly said something or taken an action? Pretty much every day. I do this in sobriety as well. I act without forethought and end up paying the price. Bill clearly expresses that prudence is a positive trait to possess. We should have rational concern about various situations without having to worry.
In order to protect my sobriety, practicing prudence is a requirement. I have to be on guard against a drink by taking positive actions for my sobriety: daily prayer, meditation, meetings, working the steps, sponsorship, and, at the same time, avoid the negative actions and attitudes that can lead me right back to the bottle: selfishness, dishonesty, pride, greed, resentment.
Today’s Prayer
God, help me practice prudence. I will be aware and leave the worrying to your perfect care. I trust you today.